Thursday, December 19, 2013

Taylor the Human


“There's work, and there's life, and there's no balance.”
-Sheryl Sandberg, Facebook COO, from her book “Lean In

I realized this week why some people don’t like talking about politics over dinner. I was sitting at the dinner table with mind and mouth moving fast giving a “report” to my husband on legislation we’re pushing and listening to his opinions, and, at a pause, I suddenly realized I really did not want to talk about politics any more. -- and I LOVE politics. But I suddenly realized that I was still mentally at work even though I was physically sitting beside my husband at home. A flip switched and I suddenly wanted to talk about ANYTHING else.

I’m in the middle of a book by Sheryl Sandberg called “Lean In.” My first impression of this book was that it was a book for liberal women. However, when Mia Love suggested at a Republican Women’s lunch that all women read it, I immediately put it on my reservations list at the library (I’m still waiting for I am Malala). The book is fabulous.  At one point, Ms. Sandberg refutes the idea of a “work-life balance,” arguing that work is part of life. If you try to balance the two, what sane person would choose work over life? When you recognize that work is a part of your overall life, it is easier to integrate.

I totally get this. Trying to keep the two perfectly separate, you’re constantly wondering if you are cheating your family and yourself or if you’re cheating your employer.  But when you recognize that work is a part of your life along with several other important parts, it is easier to see a complete whole.

After that flip switched and I thought about it more later on, I realized that to be successful as Taylor the Politician, I don’t have to always be Taylor the Politician. That’s just one of my roles I circulate through. I am Taylor the Human. And Taylor the Human is made of:

·         Taylor the Wife
·         Taylor the Sister & Daughter
·         Taylor the Friend
·         Taylor the Politician
·         Taylor the Latter-day Saint
·         Taylor the Coworker
·         Taylor the Woman
·         Taylor the Teacher
·         Taylor the Temple Worker
·         Taylor the Reader
·         Taylor the Cook
·         Taylor the Runner
·         Taylor the BYU Alum

-- And I enjoy each of these roles immensely. They make me who I am. They make Taylor the Human.

Thursday, December 12, 2013

Freshmen Meals



For all the freshmen out there. Whether you’re a freshman in college or a freshman in life, here’s a letter I cobbled together in answer to my sister’s question:
First of all, I really like you.
So, eating in college is a balance of cheap, fast, and healthy. You decide the balance. Below are some ideas.
Grocery Shopping: I highly recommend you make a list of 6-7 dinners each week before you go grocery shopping to make sure you are only buying what you need. You don’t want to buy two green peppers when you really only needed one. I don’t usually need to plan what I’m going to eat for breakfast/ lunch. I just make sure I have a couple breakfast choices (bagels, oatmeal, and apple juice, for example), stuff for wraps (lunchmeat, cheese, mustard, spinach), and some snacks (yogurt, string cheese, rice cakes, peanut butter, crackers). And then I buy whatever fruit is cheapest and a bag of sliced carrots for snacking. I also like to plan one treat to make each week on Sunday, too.
Spices: You can get a long way with salt, pepper, seasoned salt, chili powder, minced garlic, Italian seasoning, and cinnamon. Those are the basics.
Meals:
1. Pasta. Boil some whole wheat penne pasta. Dice a polish sausage ($2 at Winco) and saute in butter in a small sauce pan. Once they're browned, pour in half a jar/can of pasta sauce with a 1/4 c. half & half. Heat together, stirring frequently. Microwave some frozen peas or green beans for on the side.
*Note: Frozen veggies are much healthier than canned, though you may get tired of fighting for freezer space with your roommates.
2. Spaghetti Squash. Microwave a spaghetti squash for 2 min (just so it's soft enough to cut). Cut it in half longways, rub on some butter, and then put the two halves face-down in about 1/2 inch of water in pan and bake around 350 for 30-45 minutes. While baking, brown 1/2 lb ground beef and pour on the other half of that jar/can of pasta sauce from night #1. Once the squash is soft, scrape it out with a fork. Add a little parmesan to your squash and sauce and dinner is served.
3. Tortilla chips with salsa, corn, and black beans. Yes, I seriously ate this for dinner regularly.

4. Skillet Nachos. Saute chopped zucchini, onion, and green pepper in skillet. Pour in one can chili beans w/ sauce and ½ to 1 cup salsa. Heat, stirring occasionally. Once it starts to simmer, pour everything into a mixing bowl and fill the skillet with tortilla chips. Then pour the stuff on top, cover with cheese, put a lid on, and wait for the cheese to melt. Enjoy!!

5. Grilled Chicken Salad. Place a frozen chicken breast (or two) in a Ziploc bag with teriyaki sauce before you leave for class. When you get home, cut the breast in strips and grill/ sauté in a pan. Serve the chicken on greens with a can of mandarin oranges and dress w/ a little teriyaki mixed with Italian (or your fav dressing)

6. Baked Sweet potato and Chicken. Put a frozen chicken breast (or two) in a Ziploc bag with olive oil and Italian seasoning before you leave for class. When you get home, poke a sweet potato with a fork, wrap in foil, and throw it in the oven at 350 for an hour. Tip: buy two small potatoes instead of one large so it’s faster. Then slice the chicken and grill/ sauté. Microwave some frozen veggies. Serve potato w/ butter & brown sugar.

7. Peanut-Sesame Noodles. Boil whole wheat spaghetti w/ 1/2 bag of frozen broccoli & drain. Brown a couple tbsp. of sesame seeds and ½ c. (ish) of peanuts in olive oil and some minced garlic (optional: and chopped onion). Whisk together ¼ c fresh-ground PB (super cheap at Winco), 3 tbsp brown sugar, 2 tbsp of vinegar, and 2 tbsp soy sauce. Mix everything together and enjoy!
*Note: this is a recipe you have to shop special for. Or just steal soy sauce, sesame seeds, etc. from me. That would probably work better.

*Note: if you’re only using part of an onion, put the rest of the onion (quickly) in a ziploc bag with two matches. Then place that in a Tupperware and stick in the fridge. The matches prevent the onion from stinking up your fridge and having your roommates complain at you.

*I’ve also heard that you can buy pre-chopped frozen onions and peppers in the freezer aisle. That would be awesome if I could find them.

8. Parmesan Ckn. Thaw out chicken. Dip in butter and then a mix of seasoned bread crumbs and parmesan cheese. Bake at 350 for 30-60 minutes (depends how small you cut the ckn strips). Eat with a salad and croutons or some frozen spinach with parmesan on top!
*Tip: Cut the ckn smaller so it’s done faster.
*Tip: Cover the pan with foil for easy clean-up.

9. Fried rice. Google it.
*Note: Great for leftover rice.

10. Omelette.
*Note: You can put basically anything in an omelette.

11. Scrambled eggs w/ toast and a fried tomato. I like scrambling my eggs w/ a splash of half & half. Cut a tomato in half and then fry w/ olive oil and plenty of salt and pepper.

12. Buy stir-fry frozen veggies and eat them with some chicken sauted in teriyaki. Serve on rice or ramen noodles.
*Note: Brown rice = healthier than white rice. If you can’t stand brown rice, try mixing it half and half with white.

13. Veggie Chili. Throw in a crock pot: one can baked beans, one can kidney beans, 1-2 cans diced tomatoes, chopped onions & bell pepper, chopped zucchini, some corn, maybe some salsa…. You get the idea. Add seasoned salt, chili powder, and a little pepper. Enjoy with rice or cheese or sour cream or fritos or whatever you want.
Note: This is easy and you can adapt it however you want. Use black beans instead of kidney or add ground turkey or beef.

14. Chili Pasta. Boil pasta & drain. Brown ground beef w/ onion. Mix in a can of chili and ½ c of salsa and heat. Serve chili on pasta and sprinkle with cheese.
*Note: you can always substitute ground turkey for beef. It is usually cheaper and has much less fat.

15. Quesadillas – I prefer cheese with sliced tomato.
*Note: I’ve heard through the grapevine that you can shred cooked cubed chicken with a hand mixer! I need to try…

16. Wraps.

17. Pita Pizzas. You can have whatever you want…

18. Crock pot cream cheese ckn. Not healthy at all, but delicious. I usually add green peppers and onion. http://www.food.com/recipe/crock-pot-cream-cheese-chicken-12458

19. Pork chops. Shake up in a bag with a little olive oil or melted butter, seasoned bread crumbs, and parmesan. Bake at 350, for… you know… a while.  45 min?

20. Apple Pork chops. Rub bottom of crock pot with butter. Rub chops with salt & pepper. Place in crock. Dump in chopped apple, a little garlic, and some brown sugar. Pour in apple sauce to cover. Cook on low for a few hours and eat on rice! (Or however you want)

21. Beef Taco Skillet. One of my favs: http://www.talkingdollarsandcents.net/beef-taco-skillet. You’ll need to cut the recipe in half. Oh, and I like substituting black beans for some of the meat since meat is expensive.

22. French Toast. Mix an egg with some milk and cinnamon. Tip in whole grain bread and then cook on the stove. Top with fruit.